Spotlight THE ETHICAL LIFE How an unexpected gift reminded me of what matters most — Richard Kyte Richard Kyte Columnist Dec 20, 2024 Dec 20, 2024 Updated May 7, 2025 Facebook Twitter WhatsApp SMS Email Print Copy article link Save Is there anything more gratifying than an unexpected gift from a stranger? The answer is “yes,” but we’ll get to that.kAmp 76H 52JD 28@[ 2 7C:6?5 H2D D9@AA:?8 2E 2 =@42= 5@==2C DE@C6[ 3FJ:?8 D>2== :E6>D E@ A=246 :? 8:7E 3@I6D 7@C 49:=5C6?] w6C 49FC49 925 8:G6? 96C 2 563:E 42C5 H:E9 2 S`d_ 2==@H2?46[ 2?5 D96 H6?E E9C@F89 E96 2:D=6D A=24:?8 5@K6?D @7 E@JD 2?5 D49@@= DFAA=:6D :? 96C 42CE[ <66A:?8 2 CF??:?8 2>@F?E :? 96C 9625] (96? D96 8@E E@ E96 4964<@FE[ D96 E@=5 E96 4=6C< E@ DE@A H96? E96 E@E2= 8@E 4=@D6 E@ 96C DA6?5:?8 =:>:E]k^AmkAm%96 4=6C<[ 2 3:8 C@F89\=@@<:?8 >2?[ DE2CE65 D42??:?8 E96 :E6>D 7C@> E96 42CE] “*@F DFC6 92G6 2 =@E @7 DEF77 96C6[” 96 @3D6CG65] |J 7C:6?5 6IA=2:?65 H92E D96 H2D 5@:?8[ E92E 6G6CJE9:?8 H@F=5 8@ E@ 49:=5C6? 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Richard Kyte is director of the D.B. Reinhart Institute for Ethics in Leadership at Viterbo University in La Crosse, Wis., and co-host of "The Ethical Life" podcast. Richard Kyte is the director of the D.B. Reinhart Institute for Ethics in Leadership at Viterbo University in La Crosse, Wisconsin. His new book, “Finding Your Third Place: Building Happier Communities (and Making Great Friends Along the Way),” is available from Fulcrum Books. He also cohosts “The Ethical Life” podcast. Locations Lacrosse Catch the latest in Opinion Get opinion pieces, letters and editorials sent directly to your inbox weekly! Sign up! * I understand and agree that registration on or use of this site constitutes agreement to its user agreement and privacy policy. Related to this story Ethical Life playlist SoundStack
Columnists The Ethical Life: Columns by Richard Kyte Richard Kyte Columnist Updated Apr 6, 2026 Richard Kyte is director of the D.B. Reinhart Institute for Ethics in Leadership at Viterbo University in La Crosse.
