Mary and Don Moran, who have been married 44 years, get ready to leave their apartment in Cottage Grove this month to visit an assisted-living facility. Don planned to stay at the facility after Mary had surgery for breast cancer. Caring for Don, who has dementia, is difficult, Mary said. "Before cancer, it was just a little stressful," she said. "Now it's scaring me to death."
As a phone company lobbyist in Madison and Washington, D.C., and a Russian language specialist in the Air Force, Don Moran had a quick wit and a sharp mind.
Frances Bombka exercises in her Eagle River home as Tammy Walport, who works for Loving Touch Home Care in Rhinelander, looks on. Walport, who lives in Rhinelander, about 25 miles away, cares for Bombka three days a week.
A photo of Peter and Cheryl Ziegler sits in their Madison condo. Cheryl, who was diagnosed with dementia two years ago, thinks every day is Sunday and always wants to go to church. Peter said.
Tammy Walport, who works for Loving Touch Home Care in Rhinelander, visits Frances Bombka, 98, who has dementia, at Bombka's home in Eagle River. There's a shortage of caregivers for dementia, especially in rural Wisconsin. Caring for Bombka around the clock every day takes five of Loving Touch's 20 workers, only three of whom live in or near Eagle River, general manager Paul McKenzie said. "I'm pulling people from other areas," he said.
Mary Moran made a photo album of family and friends, labeled with names, for her husband, Don, who has dementia. After a recent gathering with extended family, Don still couldn't recognize some people. "I need a bigger book," he said. "I was embarrassed. I shouldn't have been, but I was."
Mary and Don Moran attend a pumpkin-painting outing in October as part of the Spry Society, a program of the Alzheimer's Association. Mary also joins Don, who has dementia, at the association's memory cafes. "They're forgiving places to be," Mary said. "If you can't remember something, well, they can't either."
Mary and Don Moran, who attend a non-denominational church, pray before eating lunch at their apartment in Cottage Grove. They met decades ago in Dallas, where she grew up and he was working as a phone company lobbyist. He played chess with her friend's husband and asked her out. "It was kismet; fate brought us together," Mary said.
Mary Moran, 75, loads her husband Don's walker into their car outside of their apartment in Cottage Grove. Two of their daughters live nearby and help out when can, but they work full-time and have children. Mary does most of the caregiving for Don, 85, who has dementia.
Don Moran, center, has dementia. At his wife Mary's urging, he started a "boys' club" at his senior apartment complex, inviting other men to meet for coffee once a week. He told the group why he was participating in an article about dementia. "It is to take away from people pointing and laughing at those of us who have lost their memory a little bit," he said.
Photos from a Special Report | Fading away: Wisconsin's dementia crisis
Martin Schreiber with Sun Prairie mayor
Former Wisconsin Gov. Martin Schreiber, right, talks with Paul Esser, mayor of Sun Prairie, before a talk by Schreiber in October at the Colonial Club in Sun Prairie. Schreiber wrote the book "My Two Elaines," about his wife having Alzheimer's disease.
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Mary and Don praying
Mary and Don Moran, who attend a non-denominational church, pray before eating lunch at their apartment in Cottage Grove. They met decades ago in Dallas, where she grew up and he was working as a phone company lobbyist. He played chess with her friend's husband and asked her out. "It was kismet; fate brought us together," Mary said.
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Mary and Don preparing to leave apartment
Mary and Don Moran, who have been married 44 years, get ready to leave their apartment in Cottage Grove this month to visit an assisted-living facility. Don planned to stay at the facility after Mary had surgery for breast cancer. Caring for Don, who has dementia, is difficult, Mary said. "Before cancer, it was just a little stressful," she said. "Now it's scaring me to death."
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Mary loading Don's walker
Mary Moran, 75, loads her husband Don's walker into their car outside of their apartment in Cottage Grove. Two of their daughters live nearby and help out when can, but they work full-time and have children. Mary does most of the caregiving for Don, 85, who has dementia.
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Mary and Don at pumpkin painting
Mary and Don Moran attend a pumpkin-painting outing in October as part of the Spry Society, a program of the Alzheimer's Association. Mary also joins Don, who has dementia, at the association's memory cafes. "They're forgiving places to be," Mary said. "If you can't remember something, well, they can't either."
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Don's "boys' club"
Don Moran, center, has dementia. At his wife Mary's urging, he started a "boys' club" at his senior apartment complex, inviting other men to meet for coffee once a week. He told the group why he was participating in an article about dementia. "It is to take away from people pointing and laughing at those of us who have lost their memory a little bit," he said.
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Peter Ziegler
Ziegler
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Bill sorting Jacqui's meds
Bill Cadotte prepares medication for his wife Jacqui, who has dementia. If he doesn't watch, she sometimes hides her pills, he said. She has started taking CBD oil, which Bill thinks is helping, but her dementia continues to get worse. He doesn't know how long she'll be able to stay in their home.
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Cindy Dunbar
Dunbar
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Bill and Jacqui outside of their home
Bill and Jacqui Cadotte live near the Chippewa Flowage on the Lac Courte Oreilles reservation. They married in 1970 and raised three children on the reservation, where Bill continues to work as purchasing manager for the tribe. Jacqui was diagnosed with dementia three years ago.
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Randy and Wonaquance
Randy and Wonaquance Cadotte said it's hard to see their mother, Jacqui, decline from dementia. But "I understand that and accept that," Randy said. "What I have a hard time accepting is putting that added stress onto my father."
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Jennifer and Jacqui
Jennifer Cadotte helps her aunt, Jacqui Cadotte, who has dementia, prepare to put on her shoes. Jennifer started working as Jacqui's paid caregiver on weekdays last year after other caregivers hired by Jacqui's husband, Bill, didn't work out. Jennifer, who previously ran youth programming at the local community college, said she wouldn't work as a caregiver for anyone else. "This is more out of love than anything else," she said. "It's too hard."
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Tammy with Frances in Eagle River
Tammy Walport, who works for Loving Touch Home Care in Rhinelander, visits Frances Bombka, 98, who has dementia, at Bombka's home in Eagle River. There's a shortage of caregivers for dementia, especially in rural Wisconsin. Caring for Bombka around the clock every day takes five of Loving Touch's 20 workers, only three of whom live in or near Eagle River, general manager Paul McKenzie said. "I'm pulling people from other areas," he said.
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Frances doing exercises
Frances Bombka exercises in her Eagle River home as Tammy Walport, who works for Loving Touch Home Care in Rhinelander, looks on. Walport, who lives in Rhinelander, about 25 miles away, cares for Bombka three days a week.
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Doreen on phone with Lyle
Doreen Conner said her husband, Lyle, has become more gentle since he developed Alzheimer's disease. But it can be a struggle to care for him and do tasks such as grocery shopping, she said. "It's a long, hard day for me when I have to do that," she said.
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Doreen and Lyle holding hands
Doreen Conner cares for her husband, Lyle, who has dementia. They live in Prentice, in northern Wisconsin, and have been married 67 years. As Lyle's dementia has gotten worse, Doreen has started leaving him in their locked car when she goes grocery shopping. But with winter approaching, "I'm not going to let him sit in the car," she said. "I'm going to have to get somebody to come (to their home) and sit with him."
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Lori Kiefer
Lori Kiefer cares for children and older adults at Friendship Village, an intergenerational day care in Phillips, in northern Wisconsin.
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Cyclotron
The cyclotron in the basement of the Wisconsin Institutes of Medical Research near UW Hospital produces radioactive atoms for use in PET scans, said Jon Engle, who works in the lab.
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Sara Tirner doing yoga with others
Sara Tirner of Madison, whose mother died from Alzheimer's disease two years ago, participates in a yoga class at Tantra Yoga and Wellness in Downtown Madison. She has undergone 11 brain scans in dementia studies at UW-Madison. "Because of my yoga, I'm very relaxed being in MRIs and PET scans," Tirner said.
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Tirner doing yoga
Sara Tirner, shown doing yoga at Tantra Yoga and Wellness in Madison, became a yoga instructor herself after working in banking for many years. Before her mother died from Alzheimer's disease two years ago, Tirner moved in with her and her father, in Two Rivers, to care for them.
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Karen and Barb before PET scan
Karen Ingmundson, left, talks with PET technologist Barb Mueller before getting a PET scan. Ingmundson doesn't have Alzheimer's disease or a family history of it, but she has participated in several studies to help increase scientific understanding of the disease.
Mary and Don Moran, who have been married 44 years, get ready to leave their apartment in Cottage Grove this month to visit an assisted-living facility. Don planned to stay at the facility after Mary had surgery for breast cancer. Caring for Don, who has dementia, is difficult, Mary said. "Before cancer, it was just a little stressful," she said. "Now it's scaring me to death."
A photo of Peter and Cheryl Ziegler sits in their Madison condo. Cheryl, who was diagnosed with dementia two years ago, thinks every day is Sunday and always wants to go to church. Peter said.
Mary and Don Moran, who attend a non-denominational church, pray before eating lunch at their apartment in Cottage Grove. They met decades ago in Dallas, where she grew up and he was working as a phone company lobbyist. He played chess with her friend's husband and asked her out. "It was kismet; fate brought us together," Mary said.
Mary and Don Moran attend a pumpkin-painting outing in October as part of the Spry Society, a program of the Alzheimer's Association. Mary also joins Don, who has dementia, at the association's memory cafes. "They're forgiving places to be," Mary said. "If you can't remember something, well, they can't either."
Mary Moran, 75, loads her husband Don's walker into their car outside of their apartment in Cottage Grove. Two of their daughters live nearby and help out when can, but they work full-time and have children. Mary does most of the caregiving for Don, 85, who has dementia.
Don Moran, center, has dementia. At his wife Mary's urging, he started a "boys' club" at his senior apartment complex, inviting other men to meet for coffee once a week. He told the group why he was participating in an article about dementia. "It is to take away from people pointing and laughing at those of us who have lost their memory a little bit," he said.
Mary Moran made a photo album of family and friends, labeled with names, for her husband, Don, who has dementia. After a recent gathering with extended family, Don still couldn't recognize some people. "I need a bigger book," he said. "I was embarrassed. I shouldn't have been, but I was."
Tammy Walport, who works for Loving Touch Home Care in Rhinelander, visits Frances Bombka, 98, who has dementia, at Bombka's home in Eagle River. There's a shortage of caregivers for dementia, especially in rural Wisconsin. Caring for Bombka around the clock every day takes five of Loving Touch's 20 workers, only three of whom live in or near Eagle River, general manager Paul McKenzie said. "I'm pulling people from other areas," he said.
Frances Bombka exercises in her Eagle River home as Tammy Walport, who works for Loving Touch Home Care in Rhinelander, looks on. Walport, who lives in Rhinelander, about 25 miles away, cares for Bombka three days a week.
